Live your life and love your life show with Olha

What is the role of each of us?

Apparently everything is easier if you don't complicate it, and only now have I begun to realize this.

Adult children in the big world

The victim program gives the false impression that you are not guilty, but someone else is. While this feeling is shared by all participants in the conflict. A conflict escalates into violence when one or all parties refuse to seek consensus. Adulthood begins when all participants in the conflict recognize themselves as participants in the conflict, guilty of creating it and responsible for its resolution.

Everything teaches us one thing

After 12 exhausting years of suffering, problems and chaos, I realized that both good and bad things teach us one thing - Agape. I cried, howled in pain, screamed, drove myself into fears and doubts, and my greatest enemy was pride, which held me back. God does not send us the situations we want, but those we need and which make us better.The greatest challenge is being humane to those who are not.Everything teaches us love.

The specifics of narcissism

Perhaps narcissism also teaches something and shows something. I learned the lesson and let the teachers go.

Narcissist survivor

The worst thing a person can do is destroy another person's life. And to do it quietly and unnoticed, but purposefully. A narcissist doesn't just aim to destroy his victim's life, but to kill him, and that is his goal. Like a spider, he weaves a web around his victim until he gets what he wants. A narcissist is probably the worst thing that has ever happened to me. He managed to push me and my environment to the brink, isolating me from the people who were important to me and creating problems for them to divert attention away from me. It was hell that stole everything that was best in my life.

Forgiveness Sunday

I used to think that forgiving wasn't that difficult, until the insults, wounds, and suffering from pain became a part of me. That pain seems to destroy you from within, and the only way out is to let it go and allow yourself to be free from it.I was the one who asked for forgiveness because my conscience would not allow me to forget my own mistakes. I realized that no amount of apologies would change that, but I felt that it would help me acknowledge my mistakes to those people and maybe even come to an understanding. It is extremely difficult to ask for forgiveness and to forgive.

There are people through whom God loves us

....And then you remind yourself that you shouldn't get carried away, and then there will be no disappointment.....life lessons are also important...

All answers are inside

I ran away from myself for a very long time, allowing the state and mindset of a victim to control me. I gave other people power over my life as if I were a guest in my own life. This led to chaos in my life and work on myself when I faced reality—everything starts with me, and I am the answer to everything. At first, I wanted to deny it and look for someone to blame, but then it didn't make sense because I realized that this was happening to me because I allowed it; it was comfortable for me to remain in a childish position. My immaturity was my response to this.

It is worth everything

Love is worth everything—worth your pain,worth your separations,worth disgust and torment,worth vicious howling,worth madness and mercy.It is even worth life itself.Not to mention death.
© Serhiy Zhadan

When the soul hurts

The soul hurts the most, and its wounds may not be loud, but they remind you of themselves in a painful way. One of my favorite songs is “I know every open wound in you, I will heal them all so that you don't remember.”